So i have been married for over a year and dated a few years before that. Due to my job we moved away from her familys and friends. It has been hard on her and i have been supportive but there is alot of new stresses at work so it isnt good for me either. Well recently i felt something was wrong and found out my wife had created an online profile looking to meet people for friends. Well after i did some investigating i found out she sent a guy pictures of her in her bra and panties and that she had planned on possibly meeting this guy and having fun. I caught it before she met anyone and nothing like this has ever happened. What do i do i feel betrayed.

You feel betrayed, because you have been. Whether anything actually happened, it hurts knowing that your spouse was WANTING something to happen.

Does she know you know?

Yes she knows that i know. I caught her and she cried and said it was the worst mistake of her life ever talking to these people online. She says she was in a "rutt". In reviewing cell phone records and computer records i can tell that she never took it further than an online thing. She never called any of the guys or anything further than just dirty emails. In her defence she said "she was just trying to see how far she could take it online" but when i asked if she planned on meeting these guys and fooling around she says she didnt know.