He admitted it to me couple days ago that he was cheating on me with my "best friend" since January. I am still in shock.
I feel like I am the biggest idiot.
He said he realized that I am the One and he knows that he screwed up very bad. He was apologizing and trying to fix everything between us. He would do anything to make things work...
I can't even think...I am still in shock.... I would have put my hands in fire for him that he would never do this to me... I was wrong... very wrong...
I know our relationship had problems... we were having serious financial problems. He felt I was pressuring him and not prechiating him. I admit that.

Just because there are problems doesnt give him the right to cheat on you. And what about your best friend, what kind of friend is she? He is making excuses up to justify his actions when in actuallity there is no good excuse for it.

Have you talked to your best friend?

No, I didn't talk to her. I have nothing to say...
I never wanna see her again. Now I see who was giving me advises and where those advises took our relationship.

I so feel your pain, if he confessed without you knowing, all I can say is WOW. He must really feel bad and really want your relationship to work, unless he wants out. I am married 16 yrs, was very close with another couple, we did everything together and then they hooked up. He pretty much said it was ONLY oral sex that they would meet in parking lots, she'd do her thing and he'd go to work. He says he has no feeling towards her and only did it cuz she swallowed (what a man thing), and he sees her as trash. All these words and explainations and It doesn't make a bit of difference. It happened, I feel like a complete idiot, I have no self esteem, I feel humiliated and so so stupid for believing that he would never do this to me. I have no one to talk to about this because I don't want to involve my family or I will just feel even more stupid for staying here trying to work think out. I ask myself why he would do this and why am I still here. Being in this moment really sux, I'm so lost as I'm guessing you are too.

I too have been going thropugh the same thing. She said she was my friend and turned around and told my family on husband side and husband that i was cheating on him. she would call him and tell him everyday till he finally believed herand he thoght well shes doing it to me so why not do it back.Well it turns out I never cheated on him and she had him snow balled but yet he could have said no. Went on for a long while then one day he told me not who but what he had done. He told me he ended it and he honestly thought I would have left. Well I was pretty close to walking out the door till his parents talked to me. I never loved someone like I do him. She even called to tell me what happen between them after he did. To this day I see her no where and he has no contact with her I check up on his phone bill. I have forgave him and he has cried with me and now he does't no how to forgive himself. I have heard once they cheat and they confess alot of times they never do it again.I hope this is one of those cases. Good luck to you! It does hurt a little less every day.

Oh my god, exactly the same thing happened to me, I found out in February, with my now X Best friend. She even had the gall to accept my hospitality at Xmas when all she wanted to do was F*k my husband, she thought she was gonna go off and marry him, however he is back with me, part of having him back is so that she wouldn't have him. I just can't believe she would stoop so low, she calculatingly went after my husband, she taunted me telling me to 'move over he's mine now". Well him on the other hand was a dumb ass and only thinking about 'you know what'. Anyway her and her husband are getting a div, she has 2 kids and has nothing, all I can say is KARMA!!

It is very hard to move on and get the images out of my head, I read their very vivid emails..... however funny enough my husband is unbelievable and doing everything he can to make it up to me and me happy, he really wants it to work. I am trying too.

What we all have to remember is there is ALWAYS another woman out there quite willing to take your husband off your hands, we really have to keep up our guard. And a lot of the time it happens that it's the person closest to us. Remember another thing, never trust your 'best friend' with your secret as you never know when they will become your enemy....

May she rot in hell, I will forgive him as I love him but her she is just trash and I will never forgive her.. Some people talk about having to forgive in order to heal, nope not for me. I also feel sorry for her poor kids, don't these women think about their kids instead of running around shagging other womens husbands??

Right enough of the negativity, off to have a hot bath, and cook my new found husband a lovely dinner, put a smile on my face as we have to move forward together and only think about our happiness now....