ive recenlty discoverd my husbant of 5 years slept with a much older woman last weekend while he was away on a course.
this came as a huge shock as id never thought my husband was the kind especially now i am 8 month pregnant with our first child.
i found out on my own when he forgot to log off the computer , her pictures and emails where there. my husband denied it. the lady left her telephone number on the emails so i rung her. she accepted it and says he was there for the weekend , and says my husband said he was single...
my husband then accepted it , though he has apologised i dont think he is really sorry for what he has done. i cant sleep , eat or function normally. i am trying to remain calm for the sake of the baby.
i cant imagine why he would do such a thing especially knowing my condition. iam hurting alot , we have recently moved to germany as he is in the army so i dont have friends or family to talk to.
i love him to bits and dont want to think of life without him, i also dont want to bring the baby into this world without a father. am heart broken. please can someone give me some advise

You guys are going to have a long road ahead if you decide to stay with him. He is going to have a lot of work to do in order to earn your trust back. You need to know why he did it, a real answer! Go to couseling together and work on things.

FYI... bringing a baby into this world without a father is not the worst thing that could happen infact a lot of times its the best for the baby. You dont want that child growing up seeing daddy cheat on mommy or thinking its ok to be treated or to treat women this way. Children are often times happier with there parents apart then they are with them together.