I know i have been a compulsive liar.. for years and years. i am afraind to get yelled at and beat like my real dad did to my mom up till i was 4 and taken away from real parents.
I suffer from depression, pstd, anxiety, bipolar? who knows...alot of back oain. My husband said he wasn't verybally abusive to me until i lied to him over nad over again..can i ever change?? Not be afriad to get into trouble?
i have such a long history of alot of things and issues... i am trying to work on them all.i'm in counseling. have been for 8 years. been married for 20. My husband is even the only guy i've ever been with.
can he ever forgive me and will i ever change???i really am trying...please give me some ideas.... ty rael

If you are truly a compulsive liar then people will just avoid you and counseling won't help because how can anyone help you if they can't believe a word you say. What do you get out of it? Attention? Time and attention that would be better spent trying to help people with real problems. Still if you are in an abusive relationship you may be convinced you lie when in reality you are just confused and trying to understand. My original advice still stands but if nothing in your other post is true then please stop wasting our time.

it is still true. i needed to post some of this other stuff cause my husband is checking up on me and seeing all my posts ive made on here. I don't go making up things, i telll them like they are. so this is all and i am sorry to have bothered you...

I'm sorry I didn't mean to be cold and the thought did occur to me maybe your husband was checking up on you. Two suggestions,change your user name and go to your local library or a friends house and use their computer. My original advice still stands.Also try a new counselor at a d.v. shelter. As far as I know there is no cost. Good luck.

It really makes me think that if you can get on here and ask for advice and lie about everything then maybe you really are the problem in the marriage.

Your the one that talks to your ex boyfriend, right? Well lets see now your a liar and a cheater. I dont care if you slept with him or not your still emotionally cheating on your husband.

Now I am not so sure I believe that your husband does anything to you.

Did it make you feel good to drag your husband through the mud on the internet?

Sorry, This just really irritates me that you would lie to everyone, including yourself. Your the exact kind of person that everyone writes about, your the person that hurts us all so much and creates misery in so many lives. You are just another one of "them"

i know i am part of the problem in htis marrage... but it takes two also. i will not even begin to say anythiong about my husband.. iam sorry.. i have been through hell & back with just about everything.. sorry to have hurt your trust...i didn't just drag him through the mud on here.. alot of it is true... he is also checking up on me here..i ma sorry and won't post her any more...