I am going to lose my husband if I can't figure out how to stop lying. I have seeked out a councler but I don't know what else to do. I finacially got ourselves in so much debt beleiving that we are more well off than we really our. To the point we both could go to jail. I am not sure why I gotton so bad at telling the truth. I am not sure why i can't trust him enought to believe that I coul,d be my own person without him leaving me. Half to the time I have no clue what I am doing until I AM DONE. I was abused physically, mentally and emotionally as a child but does that give me the right to lie and make me out to be a person I am not. Is there any medication, workshops, workbooks I could do. I love my husband and want to change I am afraid it might be to late before I finally start telling the truth. Please HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am a liar!!!!!!!!!!11 I don't know how to stop!!!!!!!!1

Seek out a councelor and be true to yourself.

In order to stop lying, you have to want to stop while also taking the steps.

Taking the steps without wanting to stop lying will only result in you fooling yourself and accomplishing something nonexistent.

And please stop saying you can't stop lying. Yes you can, just look at the other however-many-billion people who have done it. You already have seen the results of people who are honest. Now you must learn how to become that way. It's all in your mind. It's what you want deep down. If you ever want to experience life in all it's glory and experience bonds with people on another level, you have to be true to yourself and also true to them.

I'm the same
just think of the consequnces and take a deep breath
and think before you sat things
it helps me to lie about little things
it means i can tell the truth about the things that matter
hope this helps

My ex bf lies all the time and i cant stand it and he doesnt see anything wrong with it


from, Angela