to fedup:
I'm wondering about you, It seems you kind of have the moral side of this twisted,if you were cheated on then why in gods name would you lower yourself to think it's ok to date and sleep with a married man? That makes you no better than the person that cheated on you whenever that was.Did you ever stop to think that maybe you were being very very stupid ? or did you even stop to think? you knew this man was married,no matter what lies you were told or what he filed your head with the truth is that you had no self respect so you lowered yourself into thinking you were being told the truth and that you were going to be with this man,he played you he lied to his wife over and over,and yet you continued to sleep with him see him and play dirty little games.did you ever talk to the wife,did you ever bother to aske her if what he said was true,maybe this persone is showing you a side she only knows,in fact who would know him better her or you ? hmmm,makes you think,now if his life was so bad he was so young why in gods name did he stay married for 22 years ?does that make sense at all,he stays married until its definate he'll be payng alimony and spousal support,come on you just didnt give a damn,you wanted to bed the man and didnt give a crap whether he married or not,maybe you somehoe thought you were better than her??have you been there throught the hardships she has had to endure? did you support him all these years? but yet because you saw something you decided you wanted to taste a part of him,it didnt matter to you who you hurt or destroyed it was all about you.it's very sad
that women do this.and then you want to cry and be bitter and you allowed yourself to get into this mess.by being a fool.and just how do you think his wife felt?? being lied to everyday being made to feel as though she had lost her mind while you laughed in the shadows.
you needed to think about your actions,not believe everything you hear,use some common sense.I tell you this because i am her.And you and i need to talk. not argue talk,to put this liar in his place. you don't play with peoples lives like this.unless this is just naturally who you are and this is what you like to do,why not find a single man and let someone love you truthfully and fully,how could you go and sleep with someone who snuck to sleep with you lower yourself to have sex in public place,etc,
have you no self respect,or it was all about hurting someone you knew nothing about right ??
may god have mercy on the both of you.
anyhow the pffer stands, do you want to talk like a woman or continue to hide like a coward ??
you know where i am.now don't you ??
i feel sorry for you,
it's really sad to see a woman lower herself like that behind something she has no proof or confirmation of,but she chooses to destroy another human being because she has no dignity for herself.
i bet he said he loves you, your soulmates,yada yada.
i have heard it everyday for 22 years and then some.he will die swearing you didnt exist !!! so he loved you alright.he still swears you didnt exist,and he could never do such a thing.
so how do you feel now?
i hope you feel the way I have been feeling
