I just found out that my husband told his bestfriends wife that they were made for each other and it is destiny. She told this in front of so many friends. I have suspected this for a long time. What do I do????

First off I guess he just wants to mess everything up in his life. Not only with you but with his best friend.

You need to all sit down and talk about this. His best friend should know about it and he should know that everyone is on to him.

This really sucks for you and the best friend. How could someone that loves you and is best friends with this other guy do this to any of you.

This is the perfect jerry Springer show i am only kidding!

Maybe its time that he has no contact with his best friend or his wife that way you can work on your marriage.

Has he ever done anything like this to you before? I would just let it be known that if he wants her then he needs to leave you alone but if he wants to work on your marriage then he needs to not talk to her anymore. My guess is that his best friend isnt going to want anything to do with him anymore after he finds out about this.

These two have been friends for close to 15 years. The husband does not want me to confront my husband. I told him I could not keep this quiet forever. I am very hurt. I just do not know how to bring this up.

So you telling me that his best friend already knows about and isnt upset with him and doesnt want you to say anything? Do i have that right?

This is really strange! You just need to be honest with your husband and let him know what you have found out. Let him know that this is really hurting you and you need to know whats going on. For your own piece of mind you have to say something otherwise this will eat at you forever.

the husband/best friend knows

UNBELIEVEABLE!!!! You are going to have to just say something to your husband. What is this, everyone gets to just keep there mouth shut while your hurting, your husband is wanting another women and the best friend just brushes it aside.

This is crazy, you need to just say something to your husband, let him know that he isnt getting away with anything. Dont just let this go otherwise everytime you see them you are going to wonder what your husband is thinking. You have to get this off your chest, but that is my opinion.