I was doing laundry and found some clothes in the washer. I took them out there was pants underwear and a shirt. When I looked inside my boyfriends underwear, I saw what appeared to be cum stains but it also had toilet paper lint on it ( like he tried to wipe it off. Also lately he gets after me for everything. He just gets upset over everything stupid. Then one day I was doing something online and he walked by the room and he said arent you glad I dont know anything about the computer and when he went into another room I heard him say, it would be no great loss anyways.

What's going on here? I have a gut feeling he is cheating but why say something like that?

You need to find out whats bothering him. I went a period of time like that with my husband almost 2 months of it. I had my suspisions, snooping and digging. Never found anything, finally we talked and found out that he has been really depressed about his mothers death. Every one is different and he might have a different way of dealing with life. You need to tell him what you are feeling and let him talk to you about whats going on with him. Do some snooping and see if there are any red flags there for you. Check is cell phone record, check the computer, bank accounts & credit cards. If you see strange numbers, money missing or dating sites then you have to worry. At this point I would focus on talking to him and letting him know how this is hurting you. If he isnt responsive to what you have to say then keep digging you will find something. Maybe you should seek couseling for yourself. I hope everything works out for you, dont accuse him because if he is cheating it will make him hide better, if he isnt cheating then you are just going to make him resent you more. Love him and support him, you dont know what is going on in his head. Until you know that he is cheating just love him, keep your eyes open and watch for signs but for now just love him.