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Checking phone messages 3 Years, 7 Months ago
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My wife started spending a lot more time online, in chatrooms - sometimes till 3,4, 5am always alone. I knew it was males she was chatting too and I found out that she was cybering with one - that stopped, but she continued chatting to a certain guy (Max in the RAF & Married but wife stationed elsewhere) all the time, day and night - this moved onto txt messages and phone calls.
I admit that I did suspect something and looked at her phone and email - something that I have been told was not right by our friends
She started taking her mobile with her everywhere - even when she want for a bath - she also minimised screens on the laptop if I walked past. Then she went on a night out with friends and met another guy (Pete) whom she hadnt seen since before she met me. She got home at 4.20 am and txt him striaght away, All the next week they txt each other and MSN - they arranged to meet for coffee at the weekend. (I later found out it was coffee, lunch, shopping, supper - basically most of the day) she txt him often and the following week went shopping and "happened to bump into him." She didnt tell me till the next day, but she asked to go back to his flat - she said nothing happened.
I know im probably missing out parts of this story, but so much has happened.
Early feb. I moved out at her request to give her some space to think, was away for three weeks and this gave her the time to do what she want when she wanted online - who knows what went on, anyways she loved being alone and having to answer to no one, but was advised that if she wanted to save her marriage, then I would have to move back before she got too used to being herself.
Anyways - couple of weeks ago she went to london to meet the chatroom crowd - including the guy (Max) shes been chatting / txting / phoning. - she assured me it was platonic.
This past weekend (4th March) she was out and came home so drunk - she started talking about these guys (Pete, Max & another she met that night - Toby, a 21 year old american that got her horny by dancing close to her and she told me she wanted to cum, this was all while we were intimate) and it led me to check her phone when she fell asleep - I was shocked at the sent messages, considering she was wanting to save our marriage.
She sent these to the guy she met in town
"Whatever Pete. Thought you were game for a laugh seems I got you all wrong. Shame really. We could have had some good times. Pity you wussed out. Thought you would have been up for some no strings sex."
"Good one husband and one lover is enough for me."
"Pity sure you and I could have had lots of fun."
And she sent these to the Max, the Married RAF Guy.
"Just thought its been far too long since I told you I love you. I want to do lots of naughty things to you."
"I tried to call you cos I want you so much. I want you so much my mouth is gagging for you."
"Well honey. you finished work yet? Just told my friend about london. Maybe not a good idea but I want you so much i cant help it. If i dont have you soon I might burst."
I confronted her with them and she blamed them on her being drunk - but I wasnt buying it - you dont say these sort of things just cause youve had a drink without there being something else in it before.
She also said that she had slept with him twice when she was last in london, and loved it.
Next day she said she only said that cause she was angry at me - then she said later that they had fooled around, then later still admitted to only kisses and cuddles - what am I to believe?
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