I suspected that my husband was cheating on me. Among other things, I wrote down all of the expiration dates and numbers on his condoms. I kept track of the ones we used, but also keep an inventory of his stash. Sure enough he was going through more condoms than he used with just me. He was replacing them behind my back, but I KNEW it. I hope this helps someone else.
Thats horrible of him to do that too you! But at least you know now.....I was also a cheater in the past but have straightened my act up and hate too hear crap like this...I feel my husband has other intrest too but we dont use protection so I have no way of catching him...any ideas?
i should be a detective for i new everything about my husband and his lover. The biggest give away is stains on his underware. even better if he is having sex with a true blond like mine was blond pubes in his undies. second if he smokes different cigaret buts in his ash tray. keep a diary of his phone calls and keep a diary i found that my husband rang me and asked what i was doing and then he would know i was home and then he would ring her.
check his speed o on his car then calculate the distance from his work to home and back and then you know if he is detoring home from work. You will find that it will make a pattern of the same nights. I even went to the extent of putting a leaf on his passenger seat one morning and that night it was all crushed so i know he had had somebody in his car. Want any other ideas just ask me cheers
[b]So an update about the lies I caught my husband in. Of course when I asked why he couldnt text message me back he gave me the line that its his business phone and that costs money. I said well if your only texting me it wont cost that much. He said I was the only one. I said why do you have to lie to me. I said I know she text messages you. He said well if there was a text message in there from her I didnt see it. Of course it was open. so he did. He complained that i went thru his phone. I said its a cell phone not your wallet. Its not life and death. And if you were honest with me from the start then I wouldnt have to go looking for my answers. My question is? When is enough enough. will the lies ever stop? or will they just keep piling up. Will he finally open up and try or will he just find better ways to hide the things I believe he may be doing?
[b]I have wondered about that too. I've gotten the phone calls asking me where Im at or when I'd be home. Sometimes when he goes to see his buddies one day he's there and home in an hour but that same buddy a different day 2 hours long or more. I ask why he was gone so long and he just gets mad and says what are you accusing me of now? I hate how he turns things around on me and makes me feel like I am wrong. I dont understand how I can think differently when im not near him but the minute I am I become fearful of the fight that always ensues when I speak my mind. I love him very much but I feel betrayed and so heart sore at our situation. I believe he loves me but Im afraid that if its so easy to lie to me now what else will he do that I dont know about?
Thats horrible of him to do that too you! But at least you know now.....I was also a cheater in the past but have straightened my act up and hate too hear crap like this...I feel my husband has other intrest too but we dont use protection so I have no way of catching him...any ideas?
