I went to see my boyfriend last night and questioned him about i.m.ing someone when I was at the store last weekend. I pretended to be dumb and asked what was windows live hotmail. He said it was his hotmail account which I already knew and it is also his i.m. account,which I already knew because I have the same kind of account with just him on it. Then I asked him what he did when I went to the store last weekend. Of course he tried to make it seem innocent and say he just checked his account but then slipped up later in the conversation and not only admitted i.m.ing but also her name. Anyhow confirmed he lied to me because he told me a long time ago he wouldn't i.m other women. He has her and several other women on his facebook account. I'm at a point I don't know what to do. He said again he wouldn't do it again but I don't belive him. He says he's a sociable person but this is about more han that. He's not interested in sex with me but can't wait till I leave so he can talk to her. I'm livid!

From what I gather, you have a boyfriend who promised not to IM other women, did it anway, then lied about it?

What are you doing with this man? That is the only question I have for you. If he does not respect you, respect yourself enough to move on. Working it out with him is also another option, but from what you are saying, it seems he is already focused on someone else.