My girl asked if she could go out for a night on the town so I said "Sure you can."
She told me she was meeting people who I was OK with.

She text me the next morning saying she had a bruise on her rib and had no idea where it came from.

Then she text again and said she fell on a concrete step.

I accepted this, But noticed some more bruises down the right side of her leg all in the knee area. (All on the side of the knee)

So I asked her what she had really been up to.
I know she take cocaine now and then but Sadly I have had to accept this "social norm" from her, I used to take coke on a weekend but stopped now for 3 months.

She is only young and Ihave been violent in the past to her so any truth I get out of her is over the phone, I have atteneded anger management and adressed my issues but she is still scared of me and telling the truth when she knows I can get angry easily sometimes.

It turns out that she went into town to meet some people I probably would not approve off, we just started seeing each other again after a 6 month break...

Then she went to the local pub where a lot of her male freinds go, im then told her EX-partner was there who she no longer sees but does chat to now and then in a friendship way (Again I accept this)

She probably did more coke (im figuring) then went back to the EX-chaps but am told there was another couple there and they carried on taking coccaine but apparently she did not take any more.

She staid the night in the spare bed and assures me she did not cheat and that she was wasted and slept there.

She changed her storey on the bruised rib three times, and the bruises on her knee she trys to tell me they are from work and the cages she has to move around.

Sorry if it sounds and reads like a mess.
I'm currently not with her but she is sending me letters and trying to contact me, I even changed my mobile number. She is protesting her innocence, But I know she can pull the wool over my eyes in an instant. She is young only 20 and im 27 just turned.

She also shows signs of compulsive lying. And I know from the past that if she can lie and get away with it she will.

First off (this is going to sound mean) you have no right to tell her who she can and cant hang out with. You dont have to approve of who she is with. When you are in a relationship you may ask your partner if they mind if you do something but they sure dont have to ask your permission. It sounds to me like you have a control & anger problem. Gee I wonder why she didnt want to tell you anything! Personally this girl is kinda silly for even trying to get back together, personally I think you are the one that has some making up to do to her. From what it sounds like she is scared of you, she is scared of what you will do or say if she makes a wrong step and that my friend is a very unhealthy relationship for the both of you. I know that this isnt sounding very nice, I wasnt even going to reply to your post but no one else has. She isnt being honest with you in fear of what you might do and I completely understand that. Just because she has bruses doesnt mean that she cheated, you jumped to some conclusions there without any solid evidence. Know one knows this girl or you so all we have to go off of is what you wrote and it seems to me that you are shifting blame onto her for your past mistakes. In any case you have made mistakes and so has she. You are 7 years older maybe you should just find a girl more on your level.

The reason I hit her is becasue She gave me a baby that was not mine. She thought it was.
Thank you for your reply and wise words.

You hit her? That is not good at all! She had a baby and told you it was yours? That is even worse. This is unhealthy for the both of you and you need to let her go. She brings a side out in you that is ugly and she cant keep her pants on.

Please, realize that this relationship is extremely unhealthy and abusive on both parts.

Unless some extreme changes occur and you begin to respect one another, I suggest you listen to Sawinski.

I could write a book about whats been going on the past two years. Im staying level headed.
If you saw this girl you would not think butter would melt in her mouth.

Ah dam..
i called it quits..