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[b]pandalover1999 wrote:[/b]
[quote]I have known for over 10 years that I am a compulsive liar.  I have hurt many people including my parents.  I know that being a compulsive liar is unhealthy and I just don't know what to do.
  Tonight, my compulsive lying has just made me lose my husband.  I have lied to him so many times, I am still amazed we were still together.  Sadly though, instead of telling the truth, I lied and then denied lying when he brought it up...I even was so sure of this lie (meaning the lie became a truth in my head) that I bet our relationship on it (that I was in fact telling the truth when I knew I wasn't)
   He is a great guy and I am so pissed at myself for letting him go.  He told me that he wants to help and support me, but he can't do it anymore as a husband...as a friend.  I should be counting my lucky stars he still wants anything to do with me.  He says he wants us to work, but he
can't and won't live like this.  I don't blame him..I would have broken up with myself a long time ago.
   Here is how we see it...even though we will no longer be bound together legally, we can still be committed to each other.  Then, over time I guess we will see what will happen.
   I want us to work, but part of me wonders if I am and ever was truly ready to get married.  I know I can change...I don't know how. Does my husband (soon to be ex-husband) let me go and straighten myself out...let me hit rock bottom?  Anyone out there have any advice on this?  
  Thank you so much.[/quote]

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