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[b]jenash wrote:[/b]
[quote]It really seems like he is lying.  I would be shocked and suspicious to find condoms too.  That is shady because condoms are used for sex and sex with you and him never involves them so yeah....  I would just keep my eyes peeled if I were you. It's good that you told him about why you were surprised to find them and he HAD to be a little nervous about his less than stellar attempt to cover his tracks.  Now he knows that you are onto him in a way though so he is going to be more sly.  Which is why it's important for you to ACT nonchalant but be watching and investigating like a hawk and see what happens.

On the other hand, keeping tabs is exhausting and makes you wonder why you are with someone you have to stalk basically.  So therein lies the real question.  Do you give him a chance to rebuild trust or do you split and find someone who doesn't lie right to your face?  I'm still trying to answer that for myself. All in all I think the ability to lie to you equals disrespect and there are too many fish in the sea to linger with an eel. No excuse will ever excuse a lie.  Keep that in mind when he tries to blame you for his lies.  Letting go is hard to do.  Maybe the hardest.  But think about the big picture and where you want to be in the long run.  Does it still involve a guy who lies?  He's insulting your intelligence.  I know my response seems harsh but I just can't stand when guys think it's ok to mess with their gf's or wives hearts and minds and think that we will just be dumb enough not to notice or something.[/quote]

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