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[b]Sam23678 wrote:[/b]
[quote]I found condoms next to my boyfriends bed and we do not use condoms, never have.  When i asked him why he had condoms, he lied to me for a while, saying they werent his and he didnt know where they came from.  I kept pushing him because i knew he was lying, to tell me where they came from.  He finally says that it is REALLY embarassing but: his friend was telling him about how when you use condoms for the first time after being in a long term relationship you can not stay hard because you are used to not having a condom as a barrier to feel sex.  My boyfriend stated that he decided to use a condom to masturbate in order to see if what his friend had told him was true-that you can not stay hard when using a condom.  He said he lied at the beginning because he thought he got rid of the extra two condoms (which i found unopened) and was shocked that i had found them.  He said he did not knwo how to tell me such an embarassing masturbation story.

We do not have a past of cheating on either part and i have never felt that he was cheating before.  We have been dating for over four years and i sleep at his place 6 out of 7 nights a week.  We are both in college and live within a block from each other and have mostly mutual friends.  I need advice.. he tells me he feels awful that i am doubting his actions and he states he can not comfort me in any way but by telling me "the truth", he did not cheat.  Is this a completely bullshit story or is my boyfriend just into weird stuff?  Should i end a 4 year relationship on a maybe?
Thank you[/quote]

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