Truth About Deception

I'm taking a semester off of college to work because I don't have the money for it. Problem is, I haven't told my boyfriend. We're in a Long Distance Relationship and I don't want him to think less of me. So I haven't said anything. :P

I kissed my coworker and can't tell my husband because I've had many opportunities to tell him that I did not take. To tell him now would kill his trust in me, hurt him and make our lives more awkward. I really love him and can't stand to keep this secret, but I feel like telling him would be worse!

A guy from work and myself had an affair a little while ago. He made the moves, i had just come out of a long relationship.  I am young and much younger than him. I knew he was married. It is out of character for me. It ended after 6 months when I started dating properly, which he pushed me to do. He was open about his home life and what our relationship was. I fell for him. It's been over 12 months, and I cant stop thinking about him. I see him at work everyday. He has started seeing another girl from work, secretly but its beginning to show, and it is driving me crazy. They work the same hours and are always hanging out together. I dream about them having a relationship. His wife has no idea, he is a serial cheat. I just cant stop thinking about him. But I know I don't want to be with him, because he is a cheating lying husband. I cant leave my job but need to, because of this. What do I do?

I woke up next to my best female friend while my girlfriend was away. We were touching each other, she was moaning... we kissed and kept touching. We did this a few more times.

I have hurt the feelings of the friend and I am a bit worried this secret will come out and crush my girlfriend.

My secret is that I dated a compulsive liar for ten years. Although I didn't know it at the time she lied right from our first conversation. She told me that her boyfriend died in a motorcycle accident 18 month before we meet. Then as time went on it changed from motorcycle to car accident. (That put up a red flag). Then she said it was a low speed accident and they never found the body but she is 100% sure he is dead.

To get the attention off him she started to fake serious illnesses. She has had two level 5 brain aneurysms. Three near fatal blood clots and two separate cases of cancer. I know it looks like I am the village idiot for buying her lies. But, I loved her and I wanted to be with her during these ordeals. I see now that the illnesses were her way of keeping me around.

There's more. She lived with her sister and her sister's four children. I always noticed she paid extra attention to two of them. yes, you guessed it. She lied about not having kids. Those two were hers. Amazing.

Over the years I would ask her about her about things I thought were strange. Her response was always the same. She would belittle for "not trusting her". She played the victim.

The end came when I finally picked up the phone and called her dead HUSBAND (not boyfriend) and he told me everything.

When I confronted her her exact words were, "Liar!, Go to Hell!. How ironic I am called the liar. Liars are what the are. liars. The relationship is finally over. I feel bad about it because of the feelings I had for her.

My advise to others: Follow your gut, where there is smoke there is fire. Don't lie to yourself. Move on and don't wait for an apology because it's not coming.

I was alone one night a girlfriend was out of town. I had visited a few bars and a local topless bar. I got there and there was this on girl that I was so hot I couldn't help myself but get a lap dance. Seems harmless enough right, well as she was doing her dance she started rubbing her body on me. I got really turned on and started to get excited. Long story short, I got too excited..... I have since not forgotten about it. How would I ever tell? I don't know how she would react. So what do I do? I guess writing this down is supposed to help, so we will see how it works out.

My girlfriend has been paying for my schooling for the past two quarters. Lately, I have suffered from depression and have almost completely stopped going. I attend school maybe two or three of the five days I am enrolled for. We do not live together so I am able to lie to her and tell her I attended class. I want to stop lying to her about it, but I don't know how to come out and tell her I have missed almost half of my classes.

I had a threesome twice on two different occasions, and I am not sure if my child is from that experience. I was a newlywed but had been with my husband before marriage for 10 years and now I am terrified that my child is not his. He knows of the affair and the possibility, but his family does not. I don't know what to do and if I can keep this up any longer.

I was in love with a married man... whom I grew up with as kids... we saw each other on and off for about four years til recently I got involved with someone locally. I hate myself for having what I've done now that I've found happiness... Before, I was irresponsible and vulnerable... All my past relationships were bad and I longed for love... So I had an affair with an old friend, who was in a bad marriage.  We were both looking for love in the wrong places. Til this day, I don't understand why I did what I knew was wrong... I am not a bad person but this eats away at me... I want to be able to express myself and forgive myself so I can move.