Truth About Deception

My manager is really hot. When I'm meeting with her in her office all I think about is her naked and us going at it on the desk. This fantasy won't go away. There's no way I would express this fantasy for her because of sex harassment or hostile work environment reasons. I just can't get the image of her laying naked on the desk and me pounding her to go away.

So, I cheated on my husband with my neighbor who is single and is our friend. Well, he used to be my friend. We have had a handful of physical encounters over the past 8 months, but we have sex only once. The latest encounter being only a few weeks ago. He is 8 years younger than me and is very good looking, smart and successful. It started 8 months ago after I came onto him after a night of drinking together. He accepted, but we didn't do anything that night, because there were people with us. However, he must have gained interest. He would touch me, flirt with me and would always be around. There was quite a bit of chemistry between us and even my friends noticed. Well after time we acted on it. I would go to his house late at night and we would mess around. The next day we would regret, but we did it again. I would text him late at night after drinking to see him and he would reject me and say that we can't do this and that my husband is his friend. I agreed with this and I knew better, but I was obsessed with him. Eventually he started to get annoyed and he eventually got angry and nasty with me in his texts. He would insult me and he even called me names. I was so incredibly hurt by this. Note, I was only texting about once every 2 weeks or so. After one night he was so angry that he blocked me from his facebook and was going to block my cell number. So, I finally stopped for a good two months. About 2 weeks ago we were together at a very close friends funeral and we all hung out, and I text him later that night to see how he was dealing and and he asked me to come over, and I did. We messed around a bit and then I left. We have said nothing to each other about it. I have seen him, but we don't say anything about it. I did text him just a few days ago and told him that I have to let it out and he didn't respond. I did this late at night after drinking and I know he knew I was drinking. I know he's angry that I text him again. I feel stupid for texting him. He wants noting from me, and I keep chasing him and I'm married!! I feel terrible for what I did to my husband. The last incident really left a bad taste in my mouth, literally... I am so incredibly hurt by all of this and I feel sick. I don't want to be with him anymore, but I can't seem to close the door on it either. My husband is my true love and my neighbor is my obsession that I just cannot get over.

I have a crush on my wife's friend. I don't know how it happened but I think it's because my wife assumed something was going on when I was totally innocent. The fact that she was constantly bringing her home made me think about her more. I do admit I am sexually attracted to her and I've never messed with a girlfriend's friend and definitely not my wife's friends. But now if the opportunity ever arose, I wouldn't know how to handle this situation.

I left my husband of 23 years about seven months ago. Our marriage was bad for a long time and we tried counseling. Our children are 18 and 22. The stress of the bad marriage was wearing on me and I saw my physician, feeling I needed an anti-depressant. He rx'ed one but felt I didn't really need it I just needed out of this stressful situation. He's been my doc for over 20 years. I'm an RN. So I filed for divorce, put it on hold a few months and then pushed forward. My doc had called me with lab results in late October after I'd decided to put the divorce through. It was a few days before what would have been my 23rd wedding anniversary. As we talked it started turning a little personal...On my 23rd wedding anniversary I met my Dr at his office at night and we consummated an affair that five months later is still going on. He's married with grown children and is 13 years older than me. He has given me money, bought me many gifts and is sending me and two of my family members on a European vac. this summer. The sex?? MIND BLOWING. My husband had a thing with porn and erectile dysfunction that he refused to get treated. He was cold, distant and could be verbally abusive. Having a physical relationship with a man that ACTUALLY enjoys sex with a woman, not a monitor, is marvelous. I do love him, I feel he loves me. With that said I'm not expecting him to EVER leave his wife. For now it's great and I'm enjoying it, as is he.

I'm attracted to a married friend. I may even be in love with him. I'm also friends with his wife, who has no idea of the extent of closeness of my relationship with her husband.

I haven't slept with him, although he and I have talked about it. Truthfully, the only reason we haven't is he's afraid of the consequences if he got caught. He is unhappily married, but is afraid of the damage to his children and his reputation if his wife ever caught him cheating again (she caught him once, and made his life hell). She is aware they don't have the greatest marriage, but is clueless about his dislike for her, lack of attraction to her, and intention to split from her once their children are older.

I'm hurt because years ago he led me on, telling me he wanted to sleep with me, and then when I said I wanted to also, he decided he couldn't. Yet he continues to tell me how attracted he is to me and how much he wants me. He still flirts with me. I'm single, yet he won't fix me up with any friends because he doesn't want another man to have me.

I'm so lonely. I only wish I could find a man who is available and would get me to stop thinking about my friend, but I can't. They don't seem to match up to him. Meanwhile, it hurts to be around him, physically hurts, because I want him so badly, and I know he wants me. I've spent years thinking he will cave in at some point, but I'm not sure that will happen anytime soon. I hurt even more because he sleeps with acquaintances while on business trips because he assumes he won't get caught since the indiscretions are taking place at such a distance.

I've told him how hard all this is for me. So I know he's aware of how he makes me feel. I don't know how to move on from this. I vacillate between feeling like I love him and hate him for what he puts me through.

I am crazy about my wife's best friend. I am happily married for a long time with kids. But it has become dull. I still love my wife but more as a really good friend. I would rather spend time with her best friend than her. It makes me feel guilty that I would rather spend time with her friend than her.

A year ago, I found out my boyfriend had cheated on me. I did my best to forgive and forget but it was impossible. I ended up sleeping with his best friend at the time, who had become my personal confidant about my boyfriend and my issues in our relationship. It was a one time thing but me and our friend have continued to talk ever since. While I do love my boyfriend for everything that he is, this other man is everything and so much more and I have found myself completely in love with him now. I don't know what to do as he is married to someone else and I live with my boyfriend. While I know he is still attracted to me, both physically and mentally, I don't know if he has the same feelings for me that I have for him, so I live in silence for fear of ruining what is a wonderful friendship.

I can't stop thinking about sleeping with my boss. We have never actually done anything or even come close, but every time I am in the same room as him I just want to jump him. I think about him when he isn't around and wonder what it would be like to even just share a kiss. I have no idea if he feels the same way, but can't help but feel that there has to be some sort of attraction on his end because of the way we look at each other. But then I start thinking that I may be making all this up in my head and he just views me as a professional. He is 43 and never been married and has that little bit of flirtation to him... I am 25 and have a boyfriend who I love very much. I even feel bad about the way I think about my boss which makes me think I definitely shouldn't act on it, because I will feel horrible. I have never cheated and never even thought about it seriously until now obviously. I just wanted to put this out there because I feel so wrong liking him this way, but just cant help wanting to be kinda bad!

I am madly in love with my married best friend and just found out that he loves me too.