my bf is a very clever tech/pc/mobile/ect (1 viewing) (1) Guest
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hello my name is bex,iv been with my bf for 12yrs now,we have 3 kids,over the years we have had a few hicups but nothing major,the thing is my bf is very good with tech anything! for 2yrs now iv been noticing lots of chat apps and logs but they are coded or in another language:( also lots of social networking sites,and some porn,my email has been hacked and used,my facebook,infact iv got email addys that i never knew i had,we have argued,i even left and went to my mums,but he convinced me to come back,everything i show him he denies anything to do with it even blames me,if i ask him what something means ie show him a strange number on his fone or a file on his pc,he says it is 1 thing and wikki and google say,simular but add things he leaves out,he will not admit to anything,but i know he is up to something iv seen far to many coincedences,iv told him no matter what i wont leave aslong as i get answers the truth,no matter what he's done,i now dont know what to do,my mum passed away in may,it was unexpected,i feel lost and alone,helpless dumb paranoid mad thick...this is a part of a file thats suposed to be a bitmap img,as you can see i cant find any image im in such a emotional mental mess i realy dnt know what to do i cant catch him out with pc/fone as he knows all the tricks,and he is never out long enough to be doing anything physicle,please help me. bex BM6 6 ( Ç Ç
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Well, my opinion is that he is seriously deceiving you and it involves another woman/women. He sounds like a bully to boot. I would suggest that if you can't find anything on his computer that you try to access his cell phone records on-line with his carrier. That would show you the numbers he is calling most frequently.
Either way, whether you get the info or not, the fact that he is hiding all of this is enough evidence for me to convict him of betraying you. I know that you have kids with him, but honestly, is this any way to live...full of suspicions and doubt every minute of every day? NO!!
I would just sit him down and tell him that if he doesn't open all of it up for you that it is over. You won't live with a man that has this many secrets from you.
Keep us posted.
Sunny
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hello sunny,thankyou for the advise,i agree fully but the trouble is,he is apart from this mystery,the most loving caring kind helpful"genuin"guy he will do anything for me,also my mum while she was ill,he is not the greatest outdoor kinda dad with the kids,but he is amazing with them all,he is to a stranger very shy reserved polite ect,and he is like that, to be fare,but behind closed doors,he is not shy attal his sex drive is v high,and i must say he is very conciderate,to me in that way,its abit like jackyl and hide,he insists he is not lying and that he would never see me go through this,esp losing my mum,if he could just say what i want to hear? im so affraid that im going to lose the plot,push him away(i do wonder how anyone could remain so addiment for so long)i worry im going to mess up my kids lifes,and all this without my mum just for a hug its killing me,if he dont admitt to whatever very soon,or give me a very very good explanation to prove his innocence/guilt? im going to be on that slippery slope soon,and im affraid of myself ,i just feel so alone right now without mum,i know i cant cope alone greaving for mum,but i promise myself and you if i get outa this in 1 piece,and hopefully strong enough,then im taking my kids and im leaving the entire county,without mum iv no reason to stay here,im sorry im so scatty,my head is a huge mess right now i think i might need a bit of help  i will keep you posted thankyou xxx
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