Truth About Deception

Today my wife found out the truth and the secret that ive been carrying for so long. she gave me a chance to come clean about it and i did tell her that i do have a secret and i just didnt know how to tell her. she asked me for a divorce cause i just didnt have the guts to tell her about it,instead i took the coward way out and let my mother tell her. it hurt her so bad that she posted that ? for a divorce. eventhough it didnt happen in her time the point is that i did keep it away from her and now it came out and i have to live with the consequences.I could see the hurt in her eyes and i could see that she really despised me for keeping it away from her,but if you were in so many relationships and everyone of them was a failure you tend to close up and when its really time for you to tell the truth it becomes hard till in your tummy that you just cant get it out.

i love my wife with all my heart and soul and ill do anything to keep her and make it work and to oneday ,that she trust in me again... i made this mistake and im sharing it with the world cause i feel that when you have something good in your life.no matter how hard it is,rather just tell it the way it is than for her to assume or to find out by someone else...embrace your partner and show her that you love them, dont make that same mistake that i made...

Your loving husband
Mogamat.

Could we have some more insight into what you kept from her?
Maybe we can give you some advice on how to help fix the relationship?